Most important though, I wanted you to know that a coach helped me tremendously when I was stuck with never being able to see my mom again as I was barred from my sister’s home where mom lived. Cruel and more, as you know.

What my coach said to me one day was “When are you going to stop believing you can never see your mom again?” That’s it. Just a belief. As I let that go right then, in a way…and more as time went on, I stopped believing it and in some months we did get to see my mom. Story in itself.

I’m just hoping that that question and the possibility of letting go beliefs attached to your dad’s disowning you may open something for you. Beyond that, as a hospice nurse for years and years, I know it is also possible to work these things through after death — sometimes it goes that way.

Will have the warmest, open heart to your reduced suffering around this heart break. Do let me know if there’s something here you’re interested in — I can point anyway. Much love to you! v

I cried when I read your blog, and I wish there was something I could do to help your hurt. If you know of anything I could do, please let me know.

I am so impressed with your spectacular ability to write. Keep it up!

Love,
Oddie